How about me? Thoughts on Love
It always has to be "her". What about me? "Her" happiness "Her" sanity. "Her" feelings. "Her" life. "Her" story. "Her" time. "Her" choice. All "her" and no "me". But I should know better. Love is supposed to be the other. It's not about me. I am not supposed to project my own welfare to the person I am loving. Love isn't supposed to be like that. Love is about her, just as it is about me. Her happiness. Her sanity. Her feelings. Her life. Her story. Her time. Her choice. They all matter. Without the "her", the only thing I am loving is a projection of what "me" wants. I am loving "her", a person with her own decisions in life. In no way love is about forcing her to act or think in the way I want her to be. She is free to do what she wants, and that's what I love her for. I just wish she thinks the same way I do. I jus